Birthstone Guide: Gemstones by Month and What They Mean

Birthstone Guide: Gemstones by Month and What They Mean

Every month of the year has a gemstone attached to it, and that little tradition has turned into one of the most popular ways to personalize jewelry. A birthstone pendant makes an easy, meaningful gift because it does not require knowing someone's favorite color or style, just their birthday. This guide breaks down all twelve birthstones, where the tradition comes from, how durable each stone is for everyday wear, and real pieces from our jewelry collection to shop for each month.

Key Takeaways
  • Modern birthstones were standardized in 1912, while traditional birthstones date back to 15th century Europe, which is why some months have more than one recognized stone.
  • June, August, October, and December each have multiple official birthstones to choose from.
  • Diamond, sapphire, and ruby are the most durable birthstones for daily wear, while pearl and opal need gentler care.
  • There is no rule that says you have to wear your own birthstone. Many people choose based on color and meaning instead.

What Is a Birthstone, and Where Did the Tradition Start?

A birthstone is a gemstone associated with the month a person was born. The idea has roots in the biblical account of the twelve stones on Aaron's breastplate in the Book of Exodus, which were later connected to the twelve months and zodiac signs by European gem traders. The birthstone list most people know today, called the modern list, was standardized in 1912 by the National Association of Jewelers (now Jewelers of America) to reflect stones that were more available and affordable at the time. Traditional birthstones, which trace back to 15th century Europe, are still recognized for several months alongside the modern picks, which is why you will sometimes see two or three stones listed for the same birthday.

The Complete Birthstone Chart by Month

Here is the modern birthstone for every month, at a glance.

01 January Garnet 02 February Amethyst 03 March Aquamarine 04 April Diamond 05 May Emerald 06 June Pearl 07 July Ruby 08 August Peridot 09 September Sapphire 10 October Opal 11 November Citrine 12 December Tanzanite

Birthstones by Season at a Glance

Grouping birthstones by season is a handy way to see the color story of the year unfold, from garnet's deep winter red to opal's shifting fall light.

Winter Jan: Garnet Feb: Amethyst Mar: Aquamarine Spring Apr: Diamond May: Emerald Jun: Pearl Summer Jul: Ruby Aug: Peridot Sep: Sapphire Fall Oct: Opal Nov: Citrine Dec: Tanzanite

Winter Birthstones: January, February, March

Winter babies get some of the most saturated colors on the birthstone calendar: deep red garnet, royal purple amethyst, and sea-toned aquamarine.

Garnet Pendant, 2.55 ctw

Garnet Pendant, 2.55 ctw

A deep wine-red garnet in polished sterling silver, the classic January stone.

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Amethyst Pendant, 8.00 ctw

Amethyst Pendant, 8.00 ctw

A bold purple amethyst, long linked to clarity and calm, in an 18K gold plated setting.

$213   Shop Now →

Aquamarine and White Topaz Pendant

Aquamarine and White Topaz Pendant

Sea-blue aquamarine with sparkling white topaz accents, once carried by sailors for safe passage.

$187   Shop Now →

Spring Birthstones: April, May, June

Spring's three birthstones, diamond, emerald, and pearl, are also three of the most requested stones in fine jewelry overall, prized for very different reasons: hardness, color, and luster.

Diamond Solitaire Spiral Pendant

Diamond Solitaire Spiral Pendant

A solitaire diamond in a spiral 10K white gold setting, April's hardest and most timeless stone.

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Emerald and Diamond Accent Halo Pendant

Emerald and Diamond Accent Halo Pendant

A rich green emerald halo pendant in 10K white gold, also available in garnet, peridot, or pink tourmaline.

From $1,732   Shop Now →

Cultured Pearl and Diamond Accent Halo Pendant

Cultured Pearl and Diamond Accent Halo Pendant

A lustrous 5mm cultured pearl haloed in diamonds, the softest and most classic June birthstone.

$1,978   Shop Now →

Summer Birthstones: July, August, September

Summer birthdays land on a run of durable, richly colored stones: ruby, peridot, and sapphire all wear well and photograph beautifully in warm-weather light.

Ruby and White Diamond Pendant, 1.61 ctw

Ruby and White Diamond Pendant, 1.61 ctw

A vivid ruby set in 14K white gold with diamond accents, prized for deep color and durability.

$1,690   Shop Now →

Peridot and Black Spinel Pendant

Peridot and Black Spinel Pendant

A sunny yellow-green peridot paired with black spinel in sterling silver, an easy everyday pick.

$114   Shop Now →

Blue Sapphire and White Diamond Pendant

Blue Sapphire and White Diamond Pendant

A classic blue sapphire with diamond accents in 14K yellow gold, nearly as hard as diamond.

$1,440   Shop Now →

Fall Birthstones: October, November, December

Fall closes out the year with some of the most varied stones on the list, from opal's shifting rainbow flashes to citrine's warm gold and December's three-way tie between tanzanite, blue topaz, and turquoise.

Ethiopian Opal and White Diamond Pendant

Ethiopian Opal and White Diamond Pendant

A play-of-color Ethiopian opal with diamond accents, no two opals ever look quite alike.

$1,605   Shop Now →

Citrine and Black Spinel Pendant

Citrine and Black Spinel Pendant

A warm golden citrine paired with black spinel, a budget-friendly take on November's sunny stone.

$235   Shop Now →

Swiss Blue Topaz Pendant, 4.84 ctw

Swiss Blue Topaz Pendant, 4.84 ctw

A vivid Swiss blue topaz in sterling silver, one of three recognized December birthstones.

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Choosing Birthstone Jewelry That Lasts

Not all birthstones wear the same. Jewelers rate mineral hardness on the Mohs scale, a 1 to 10 rating of how resistant a stone is to scratching. Diamond sits at the top at a 10, while a stone like pearl is closer to a 3, which means it scratches far more easily. This matters most for rings, since hands take the most daily wear and tear. For a birthstone that will be worn constantly, look toward the harder end of the scale. For a birthstone worn occasionally, in earrings or a pendant that spends more time in a jewelry box, a softer stone like opal or pearl can be a beautiful, lower-risk choice.

Diamond (April) 10 Sapphire (September) 9 Ruby (July) 9 Topaz (November/December) 8 Aquamarine (March) 7.5 Amethyst (February) 7 Garnet (January) 7 Peridot (August) 6.5 Opal (October) 5.5 Pearl (June) 3 Mohs hardness scale (1 = softest, 10 = hardest)

Tips for Buying and Gifting Birthstone Jewelry

A few things to check before buying birthstone jewelry, whether for yourself or as a gift:

  • Confirm it is a genuine stone. Listings should specify whether a gem is natural, lab-created, or a simulant. All three are legitimate options at different price points, but the description should be clear about which one you are buying.
  • Match the setting to how it will be worn. Prong settings show off more of a stone's color and sparkle but offer less protection than a bezel setting, which fully wraps the edge of the stone.
  • Consider a birthstone that is not the "default." Months like June, August, October, and December have more than one recognized stone, so there is room to pick based on color or budget rather than settling for whichever option is easiest to find.
  • Think about family pieces. A mother's or grandmother's necklace that strings together a birthstone for each child is one of the most popular ways to personalize birthstone jewelry, and it does not require every stone to match in size or shape.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the difference between a traditional and a modern birthstone?

Modern birthstones were standardized in 1912 by the National Association of Jewelers (now Jewelers of America) to reflect stones that were more available and affordable, while traditional birthstones trace back to 15th century European gem lists and older biblical and astrological sources. Some months, like June and October, list more than one option because both traditions stayed in use.

Which birthstones are the most durable for everyday wear?

Diamond, sapphire, and ruby sit at the top of the Mohs hardness scale at 9 to 10, making them excellent choices for rings and other jewelry worn daily. Softer stones like pearl and opal, roughly 3 to 6.5 on the same scale, are better suited to necklaces, earrings, or occasional wear, where they are less likely to be scratched.

Can I wear a birthstone that is not from my birth month?

Yes. Birthstones are a tradition, not a rule. Many people choose a stone for its color, meaning, or simply because they like how it looks, and mixing birthstones for family members, such as a mother's necklace with each child's stone, is a popular way to personalize jewelry.

What is the birthstone for someone born in June, August, October, or December?

These four months each have more than one recognized birthstone. June is pearl, alexandrite, or moonstone. August is peridot or spinel. October is opal or tourmaline. December is tanzanite, blue topaz, or turquoise. Any of the listed stones is considered correct for that month.

How do I clean and care for birthstone jewelry at home?

Care depends on the stone's hardness. Durable stones like diamond, sapphire, and ruby can typically be cleaned with warm water, a drop of mild dish soap, and a soft brush. Softer or more porous stones such as pearl, opal, and turquoise should never be soaked and are best wiped with a damp, soft cloth only, since soaking or ultrasonic cleaners can cause damage.

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